1. Relationship needs time. Time to learn about your partner. Time to build up trust. Time to deal with misunderstanding through discussion and quarrel.
2. Relationship needs care. Caring is important part of any relationship when you haven't understood your partner well. Caring can make you be patient enough to spend more time for it. Caring causes your awareness of your partner current status (health, career, family, & friends)and develop a need to improve it.
3. Relationship needs ambition. Being greedy is ok. Being demanding is ok. It leads your relationship to be more stable and provides good environment for your relationship to grow. It also protects the certain stage of the relationship among daily and unexpected threatens.
4. Relationship needs honesty. Honest is the key to establish any kind of relationship. Being honest means that giving both persons chances to clarify the matching percentage then we can consider 3 requirements above.
A story of B and D was developed at uncertain timing that both found it difficult to state it clearly in month, date, year. It was obviously that they didn't seem to be interested in each other after some troubles occurred to their own lives.
From the beginning, B and D were just strangers getting to know each other through one particular event. As B being friendly and a bit standing out of group of people in her age, D found it might be worth to have fun around with B as a friend.
Being friends was always a good start for everything. And that quote was also right for this story. As friends, they found it relaxing when the conversations were full of laughs. As friends, they were honest to each other and later started caring more of each other. As a friends, they had learned about each other well. Through misunderstandings happened sometimes between two, they finally realized, they were more than friends and there was no label could suit to tag on the relationship.
Until B asked D to define, "what is our relationship"
Defining...
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